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A Merry Christmas / Holiday Season to all of you from my blog in Wales

20 Wednesday Dec 2017

Posted by Christoph Fischer in Uncategorized

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I’ll be taking a blogging break now to attend Christmas parties, drink mulled wine and read a few more books and before I do I would like to thank you for following my blog in 2017.

It’s been a busy and amazing year with plenty of literary delights and an incredible journey for me personally. A mixed bag with huge highs and lows but absolutely worth it every day. From continued acclaim for “Ludwika” to the lauch of “The Body in the Snow”, “African August”, “The Sanctuary on Cayman Brac”, organising and attending Book Fairs and the successful first Hwyl Llandeilo Lit Fest, holding workshops on Self – Publishing, attending the Bloggers Bash, campaigning in three different constituencies in the local and general elections, organising and attending conferences, stagdos, my wedding and the honeymoon, a fantastic new job, town council duties, local festivals, yoga, football, cycling and making new friends online and in the real world. Thanks for being part of it. Based on 2017 I look extremely optimistic to the New Year.

Have a wonderful Festive Season and see you hopefully all in 2018!

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Mystery Mondays Review: “The Merkaba Mystery” by Iva Kenaz

18 Monday Dec 2017

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An excellent series.The Merkaba Mystery by [Kenaz, Iva]
“The Merkaba Mystery” pressed all of my buttons from the start. Its setting in Prague of 1896 was alluring to me as the chapter headings with tarot cards of the major arcana. I’ve read a bit about the Kabbala and Tarot and found the author managed to incorporate the symbolism and foundations of the teachings perfectly into a gripping and fascinating narrative.
In “The Fool” an amnesiac woman tries to make sense of her surroundings and start from scratch. As the chapters follow the progress of the Major Arcana, our heroine slowly ascends, too, catching first glimpses or visions of her past. Whether you see this as mystical or fantasy fare, the novel is a truly well-composed and rounded tale that is clever, entertaining and a pleasure to read.

Blurb:

In the year 1896, a young woman finds herself standing in the river, not remembering where she came from or who she is. The only link to her past is a bag containing a few symbolic objects, including the Tarot cards.
Followed by a cloaked figure, she ends up in Prague’s Jewish Town, which she recognises as an alternate version of her home. With the help of her newly found friends and occasional flashbacks, she begins to unravel her past connection to esotery, magic and places that initially seem unreal.
One day, she meets a young man whom she recognises as her best friend. Through their mutual memories, she discovers that her origins are stranger than she thought, and that one of the first words she recalled, Merkaba, is the true key to her past and future.

Set in an ancient European city with a distinct esoteric history, Prague, and inspired by the author’s curious dreams and visions. It explores the secrets of interdimensional travel, the Tarot, and the Merkaba. Each chapter is symbolically and archetypically aligned with one of the Major Arcana trumps.

Biography

Iva Kenaz

Iva Kenaz was born in 1984 in Prague, Bohemia. Writing has been her passion since childhood, and her novels are significantly influenced by spirituality and metaphysics. She studied Screenwriting at the Film Academy in Prague and holds an M.A in Creative Writing. She’s also a screenwriter, translator, and practitioner of tarot, runes, and astrology. She lives in the Bohemian countryside with her partner and dogs. For more information please visit her website: http://www.ivakenaz.com

Saturday Historical Review: “Without the Veil Between: Anne Brontë: A Fine and Subtle Spirit” by DM Denton

16 Saturday Dec 2017

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Without the Veil Between: Anne Brontë: A Fine and Subtle Spirit by [Denton, DM]

I thoroughly enjoyed DM Denton’s other work and jumped to the download button as soon as I saw this. 

In her previous work Denton wrote about a musician and composer whom she adores, and this seems to be the trademark of her writing. The same love for her subject shines through in the writing of this fine novel about Anne Bronte.

I know little of the Bronte sisters, so I can judge the book merely on its writing and characterisation, and Denton excells in both of them. I lived with the sisters on every page, moved by their spirit and touched by the tragedy. The sisters came to life in a manner that I never questioned historical accuracy or wondered about artistic licence. For me this was the story, delivately written with wonderful descriptive prose, attention to detail and a love for the genre. While I feared the Bronte sisters might be a bit ‘too girlie’ a subject for me, I needn’t have worried. The depth and gravity of Anne Bronte comes across perfectly, making for an extremely satisgying read.

 

As the editorial reviewer put it:

Without the Veil Between catches both the triumph and the tragedy of Anne’s short but quietly courageous and determined life.

This book gives us Anne. Not Anne, the ‘less gifted’ sister of Charlotte and Emily, nor the Anne who ‘also wrote two novels’, but Anne herself, courageous, committed, daring and fiercely individual: a writer of remarkable insight, prescience and moral courage whose work can still astonish us today.
~Deborah Bennison, Bennison Books
DM Denton

What Denton has achieved is a portrait placed in a time very different from the jangling present, but that resonates in a way that suspends years and centuries ….
~Thomas Davis, author of The Weirding Storm

… meticulous, poetic, luminous, and powerful … I can’t think of anyone better suited to bring us into the world of the sensitive, creative, and quietly courageous Anne.
~Mary Clark, Author of Tally, an Intuitive Life, Miami Morning, and Racing the Sun

 

Here is an interview with the author from a while back:

Today I have the pleasure of introducing Historical Novelist DM Denton. Welcome to my blog, please tell us about your writing history. When was the first time you decided to write and the first time you did?

I recall that as a child loving to read I also knew I wanted to write. Initially, it was an escape for me like reading was and a perfect pursuit for my introverted personality. My mother talks of my first poem, when I was seven or eight, in response to the family being together at Thanksgiving. I’m sure it wasn’t the first, the others probably well-hidden or destroyed. Actually, I can’t remember not writing—closed boxes and folders of yellowing, curling paper and hopeful half-filled journals can attest to that. All through my growing up I preferred alone time imagining characters and stories to any other activity.

Tell us about the concepts behind your books, where the idea for them came from.A House Near Luccoli Front Cover

As far as A House Near Luccoli, it was quite by chance, on the way to work one morning while listening to Canadian radio’s CBC 2, that I became aware of the 17th century composer Alessandro Stradella: his triumphant and tragic story and for the first time, at least knowingly, his magnificent music. Stradella’s talent for creating misadventures as well as masterpieces got me thinking about the paradox of such genius. I knew I would have to find a way into his story to explore the contradictions of someone with great talent who achieves much only to sabotage his success. By the novel’s end, the fictional Anglo-Italian Donatella, on her way from Genoa to England, is clearly not leaving her relationship with Stradella behind. So To A Strange Somewhere Fled was born, in part out of my experience of living and working in the Abbey and village of Wroxton, England for sixteen years and the opportunity “to return” and explore its history further; and, also, my affinity with the journey of a woman whose heart has been awoken and then broken, and who has to keep the whys and wherefores secret.

The Snow White Gift and The Library Next Door, my two kindle short stories, found their inspiration in my mother’s recollections of her childhood in 1930s Chicago. Generally, when I look for subject matter, I like to go down unchartered rather than well-worn paths, and focus on obscure historical characters, peel away their layers, writing about them in a “small” rather than epic way. With both historical and fictional characters, I always look for the ordinary in the extraordinary and visa-versa. What’s most important is that I challenge and even surprise myself in terms of where my future authorship takes me.

To A Strange Somewhere Fled Front Cover

Are you like any of the characters in your books, and, if so, what are the similarities?

There are autobiographical aspects to the central female fictional protagonist, Donatella, in A House Near Luccoli and its sequel, To A Strange Somewhere Fled. Who better than myself to draw on as I went about characterizing an insecure, isolated, resigned if passionate and creative woman, who is well past her youth and, as it seems, more prepared to meet the mundane than the extraordinary?  I readily admit she stepped out of my hopes and disappointments into an unlikely interaction with the colorfully confident Alessandro Stradella, his usual dalliances with women who were enticing and dangerous, the antithesis of Donatella … and me. The sequel, taking her to the very place in England where I lived 300 years later, only made her more of a creature of my experience, observations, secrets and revelations, perhaps, more honestly so, until—to rephrase a line from Wuthering Heights—she became more myself than I am.

What are you working on now?

I’m writing a collection of novellas featuring three of my favorite and often overlooked classic women writers, Anne Brontë, Christina Rossetti—poet and sister of Pre-Raphaelite artist and poet Dante Gabriel Rossetti, and the early twentieth century novelist and poet Mary Webb. I have a couple of short stories brewing: one based on my maternal grandmother, who was a talented pianist and monologist and her thwarted chance to tour with the Ziegfeld follies, and the other based on my mother babysitting for Hemmingway’s sister Sonny. I’m also about to embark on an illustrated poetry/prose book about cats.

Who would like to invite to dinner?

Well, as I’m writing about them, Anne Brontë, Christina Rossetti, and Mary Webb, any or all of those three—before they had a chance to read what I had written about them, of course! I’m fascinated with Anne’s gentle strength and search for the truth, Christina’s Anglo-Italian temperament, something with I deal with myself, and Mary’s deep love of nature and animals. But, perhaps my first choice for a dinner companion would be my own maternal grandmother, a vibrant creative woman who died when my mother was ten. Even without ever physically meeting her, her presence has been strong and inspirational for me.

What is your advice to new writers?

Slow down. Take the time to experiment, develop, and be open to the unexpected. Find your own way and savor the journey—even, especially, its detours. Don’t jeopardize the quality of your work by being in a hurry to see your efforts in print. What you write is your child—you want to see it grow up to be the best it can be, but that means it has to go through the stages to maturity.  Engage the senses as much if not more than the intellect. I love this quote by Ray Bradbury: “Your intuition knows what to write, so get out of the way.” Write what and because you have to write. Allow for the uniqueness of your voice and avoid the temptation of trends and popular appeal that risk you trying to be a writer other than the one you are meant to be. Or as Allen Ginsberg wrote, “To gain your own voice, you have to forget about having it heard.”
Who are your favorite authors?

My favorites are, for the most part, classic writers including the Brontës, George Eliot, Thomas Hardy, Gustave Flaubert, Emile Zola, Nathaniel Hawthorn, Henry James, Edith Wharton, Mary Webb, DH Lawrence, H.E. Bates, Colette, and Jean Rhys. As far as any more contemporary writers, specifically in the Historical Fiction category, I would say Tracy Chevalier—Girl With a Pearl Earring really inspired me to write my novel A House Near Luccoli—and, also like Chevalier, because of their very sensory and lyrical focus on artists and musicians, Susan Vreeland, Susanne Dunlap, Stephanie Cowell, and Laurel Corona.

How have you found the experience of publishing? What have been the highs and lows?

The lowest low regarding being published was when I thought I never would be, especially once I had finished A House Near Luccoli, was very proud of it, excited and, more than I had ever been with anything I’d written before it, determined to share it with others. I was considering self-publishing when serendipity directed me to a small publisher All Things That Matter Press—the day of signing my first contract with them was such a high point. The process of publishing two novels with ATTMP has been a thoroughly positive experience, especially working with Deb Harris, one of the owners of the press and a wonderful editor who knows how to get the best out of my writing, how to refine and clarify it. Of course, getting published is just the beginning of the rollercoaster ride of being an author. Building a readership offers many despairing days, but somehow never totally without a thought, a pause, in gratefulness for those who have ventured outside the main stream to find and read my work, which gives me the will to keep going. Perhaps the most satisfying high of all comes at the end of a good writing session.

What do you like best about writing? What do you like least?

I find such pleasure in words, their shape and sound; how they hold back and reveal and sometimes play tricks; how they accumulate, some seeming insignificant, others essential, but all necessary as out of the chaos of my thoughts and feelings they compose themselves to tell stories, pretend and reveal truths, amuse, engage the intellect, stir hearts, and reach out of and into souls. Writing has seen me through so much of my life, feeding my imagination and fulfilling my need to create. It’s always there with its unlimited possibilities, which encourage mine. There is hardly an hour that goes by that I don’t think about it, an obsession I perceive as a blessing in my life.

Is there anything I don’t like about writing? A few years ago I might have said marketing; like many newly published authors, at first it scared me to death. But, increasingly, I have accepted the challenge and even enjoyed it as it has become a creative exercise in itself. I don’t mind editing, on my own and working with a third party, because anything that brings all the months, even years, of hard work to the best conclusion is worth it and rewarding. The only thing I can think of that I really don’t like is the stress of wondering if something was missed in the editing, dreading coming across an error, however small, once the work is published.

What else would you like us to know about you and your books?

I’m also an artist—if more by accident than I’m a writer—and have done artwork for the covers of both my novels, grateful that my publisher has allowed me to contribute to their look. I’ve also done the cover of Dancing in the Rain, an excellent collection of poems by Yorkshire poet Christine Moran, as well as the illustrations of my kindle short stories. My blog has, over the past four years, featured much of my artwork along with poems and short prose pieces. I have self-published an illustrated poetry book, A Friendship with Flowers, that was originally a journal I did when I lived in England, about flowers throughout the year.

What song would you pick to go with your books?

Vincent/Starry, Starry Night by Don McLean, a song reflecting on the creative spirit who is an outsider and true individual, someone isolated and at the same time complete, fragile and yet enduring.

My links: DM Denton Profile Pic 1

Author Links:

Blog: https://bardessdmdenton.wordpress.com/

Website: http://www.dmdenton-author-artist.com/

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6521872.D_M_Denton

Facebook Author Page: https://www.facebook.com/dmdentonauthorartist?ref=bookmarks

Facebook Novel Pages:

https://www.facebook.com/ahousenearluccoli?ref=bookmarks

https://www.facebook.com/toastrangesomewherefled?fref=ts&ref=br_tf

Twitter: https://twitter.com/bardessdmdenton

Amazon Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/DM-Denton/e/B0093NWE4U/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1

Biography:

DM Denton’s third novel, “Without the Veil Between, Anne Brontë: A Fine and Subtle Spirit”, about Anne Brontë, the youngest sister of Charlotte and Emily, was published November 2017 and contains her original illustrations. It is available in print and for Kindle. DM Denton’s first and second novels, “A House Near Luccoli”, about an unexpected intimacy with the legendary if now rather obscure 17th century Italian composer Alessandro Stradella, and its sequel, “To A Strange Somewhere Fled”, set in late Restoration England, were also published by All Things That Matter Press, and are available in Paperback, for Kindle and as Audio Books. Her two Kindle short stories and an illustrated flower book, A Friendship with Flowers, are also available.

DM Denton is a native of Western New York. She finds her voice in poetry and prose, in silence and retreat, in truth and imagination. Through observation and study, inspired by music, art, nature and the contradictions of the creative spirit, she loves to wander into the past to discover stories of interest and meaning for the present, writing from her love of language and the belief that what is left unsaid is the most affecting of all.

Her educational journey took her to a dream-fulfilling semester at Wroxton College, Oxfordshire, England, and she stayed in the UK for sixteen years–in a yellow-stoned village with thatched cottages, duck pond, and twelfth century church and abbey turned Jacobean manor house. She lived, for better or worse, right off the pages of Fielding, the Brontës, Austin, Hardy, DH Lawrence, and even Dickens, surrounded by the beautiful hills, woods and fields of the Oxfordshire countryside, and all kinds of colorful characters. This truly turned out to be a life-changing experience that resonates in her personal and professional endeavors to this day.

She returned to the US in 1990, to a rural area of Western New York State where she still resides in a cozy log cabin, caring for her mother and a multitude of cats.

DM Denton also is an artist and has done the illustrations for the covers of her own novels and others, as well as interior illustrations. Please visit her website: http://www.dmdenton-author-artist.com/ and blog: http://bardessdmdenton.wordpress.com/

Review: “20 Things I’ve learned from my patients: A Psychiatrists pearls of wisdom to help you thrive” by Olga Nunez Miret

15 Friday Dec 2017

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My dear friend and respected colleague Olga Nunez Miret has released a new book:

20 Things I’ve Learned from My Patients. A Psychiatrist’s Pearls of Wisdom to Help You Thrive

By Dr. Olga Núñez Miret 

This truly is a lovely little book, short and less ‘psychiatric’ than the title implies. Olga has created twenty short chapters that deal with all-day pearls of wisdom that teach the values of patience, empathy and many other desirable qualities.

Each chapter is introduced by a stunning graphic and later replicated in Spanish, so you can practice your language skills, too.

I found the chapters moving and insightful, enjoyed reading about Olga’s background and life and I could easily see myself in many of the chapters.

While these reflections aren’t ground breaking, they are certainly relevant for everyone, very well-put, nicely wrapped and enjoyable to read. A wonderful read that will make you think, remind you of things you may have once known but conveniently put to the back of your mind, and one that will leave you feel warm and smiling.
Just lovely

The description is, of course, bilingual as well:

Over the years that I have worked as a psychiatrist, writer, and blogger, I’ve collected common-sense advice and thoughts that I have passed on and shared with many (patients, friends, and readers). As people don’t have much time to read and enjoy images and quotes, I decided to publish twenty of the things I have learned over the years, illustrating each one of them with a picture and a quote. And as I know many people who want to improve their Spanish but don’t dare to take on a long book, I decided to publish it as a bilingual edition, English-Spanish. I don’t claim to have found the meaning of life, but I hope you enjoy this little book.

Durante mis años como psiquiatra, escritora y bloguera, he acumulado consejos y reflexiones de sentido común que he compartido con mucha gente, incluyendo pacientes, amigos y lectores. Como sé que la gente no tiene mucho tiempo para leer hoy en día, y les gusta compartir imágenes y citas, decidí publicar veinte de las cosas que he aprendido durante mi carrera, ilustrando cada una de ellas con una imagen y una cita. Conozco a muchas personas que quieren mejorar su inglés pero no se atreven a enfrentarse a un libro largo, así que decidí publicarlo en versión bilingüe, en inglés y español. No pretendo haber descubierto el sentido de la vida, pero espero que disfrutéis de este librito.

Here my dedication, so you understand what the subtitle refers to.

To my friend Iman, who is great at delivering accurate insights in a few words, and to Rose Upton, Sister at the A&E Department at Eastbourne DGH when I started training in Psychiatry. Her disparaging comments about her nurses’ pearls of wisdom, which Iman feedback to me at the time, have remained with me to this day. I suspect mine wouldn’t deserve a kinder opinion from her either.

And a couple of the images I’ve used (all royalty free from Unsplash, including the one I’ve used for the cover):

It is really short and, well, if you’ve read the description you know everything you need to know.

If you fancy a copy, let me know. They looked OK when I checked but images can be tricky (I’ll talk about that at some point).

It will become available in many other places, but so far you can find it here:

Amazon      KOBO    APPLE 

Thanks so much to all of you for reading and remember to like, share, comment, click and REVIEW!

Posted on November 26, 2017 by OlgaNunez

Hi all:

Those of you who follow my blog will know that this has been a bit of weird year, with new things (becoming an instructor at the University of the People), other things ending (volunteering at Penistone FM), pet sitting, weddings, and plans to move back to Spain. I’ve also been translating and proofreading translations of books and I’ve written a book that I’m not sure will see the light (at least not in its current form).

After writing that book I felt at a bit of an impasse and I’ve worked on other projects but I’m not sure which one I want to work on next (perhaps there are too many things going on). In the meantime, I’ve also been looking at some of the things I had written but not published. And after rereading a short file with some common sense advice, I wondered if it might make a tiny little book, with some quotes and pictures. And then, thinking about how many people I know who want to practice their Spanish (or their English), I thought I would try a bilingual edition. (Teaching English composition at the University of the People has made me think about language proficiency).

So here is my little book…

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Review: “Twenty Years: After “I Do”” by DG Kaye

14 Thursday Dec 2017

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Twenty Years by D.G. Kaye

If you follow this blog then you might have gathered that I’m a fan of Debby’s writing. When I spotted this new release I had to grab it right away.

The book is very accurately described in the long title: It is a reflection on one specific relationship that lasted over 20 years with many challenges, which mostly stem from an age gap and health issues. This book touched me especially since I recently got married and – like the author – live with a long – term partner with many health issues.
What Kaye does with bravour is opening up about the problems encountered and how she and her partner have mastered them. Sensitive, humorous and with plenty of heart-felt love for her partner the book addresses important specific and genweral relationship issues.
I think many of us can learn from Debby, admire her choices and identify with the moments where she admittedly struggled.
Getting her partner back to work, standing by him during cancer treatment and the effects of his illness, planning their life together as couple from the “I DO” until the “R.I.P.”
Above all this, the book is a wonderful homage to her husband, a love story, triumph of love over obstacles and a lovely anniversary gift to her husband.
Having read many of Kaye’s other books I’m pleased I found this memoir that uncovered some unknown or lesser known aspects of her life as writer and wife.
I’m sure this will find a large audience as the relationship advice given is relevant for other couples, too.
Thanks for sharing these wonderful reflections and insights.

This book is live now on Amazon! Get it HERE

Blurb: 

May/December memoirs.

In this personal accounting, D.G. Kaye shares the insights and wisdom she has accrued through twenty years of keeping her marriage strong and thriving despite the everyday changes and challenges of aging. Kaye reveals how a little creative planning, acceptance, and unconditional love can create a bond no obstacle will break. Kaye’s stories are informative, inspiring, and a testament to love eclipsing all when two people understand, respect, and honor their vows. She adds that a daily sprinkling of laughter is a staple in nourishing a healthy marriage.

Twenty years began with a promise. As Kaye recounts what transpired within that time, she shows that true love has no limits, even when one spouse ages ahead of the other.

Doris Heilmann of 111 Publishing andSavvybookwriters.com, author and publisher as one of the beta readers and she endorsed the book, too:

“Twenty Years: After “I Do” shows not only newly married couples but also those in the middle of their lives how to navigate companionship challenges and show love and kindness to their partners, handling life together gracefully and in harmony.

Multibook self-help author D.G. Kaye demonstrates, using examples from her own marriage, how to really commit to a relationship—till death do us part.” – Doris-Maria Heilmann, 111 Publishing

 

From DG Kaye:

Writing this book was a true labor of love. The book stemmed from little things that popped into my head last year when my husband took ill. I was riding a roller coaster of emotions for much of the year with my husband’s health, and it got me thinking about how much had really changed through the years as his aging was happening well ahead of mine.

Okay, I’m not saying I haven’t aged, because that would be an outright lie. I have many new grey hairs that found their way into my red hair and sometimes I question the face in the mirror. But what I mean is that my husband happens to be two decades older than me, and when we first got married I let that factor slide because there were so many good reasons to get married. But it’s a learning curve when you have a ringside seat watching your spouse go through situations that become a bit more difficult as the body ages and sickness sometimes takes its toll.

It was an actual statement that my husband made one day that lit up my brain with the book idea. He made a statement – “We’ve been together twenty years.” When you read the book you will understand why that statement spurred the title of the book. And from there, well, it got me thinking about some of the day-to-day activities we do that tend to get altered as one ages, as well as some of things about the future we don’t normally tend to think about when we’re younger, but become things we have to think about and deal with.

The basic formula that I can share to keep the engines of a marriage running smoothly is to always remember compassion and kindness, listen with your heart, talk about your feelings, be a supportive partner, and don’t forget to include laughter in your life everyday!

Arizona

 

 

Here’s a short excerpt from the chapter “Taking the Plunge and Commitment” to give you a feel for what you can expect to read in this book:

 

If I commit to something, I’m in it for life. “Till death do us part” is a simple phrase often not analyzed to its fullest extent as we bask in bliss, about to commit to our chosen life partner and join in holy matrimony. After all, who wants to think about possible frightening future scenarios on what’s supposed to be one of the happiest days of our lives?

In that euphoric moment, while dreaming of a wonderful future together, we feel confident we can conquer any and everything. We feel invincible while shrouded with love as we stand before our friends and family, promising our beloved to love, honor, and cherish in sickness and health, often without taking in the truest depths of the words. We tend to discount the idea of sickness as a situation that will never happen to us—but often, it does.

Since moving away from home as a late teen, I’d had many suitors and a few marriage proposals through the years, but I had enjoyed my wings of freedom and had no desire to marry. Then I met Gordon, a man like no other I’d known. He was divorced and living it up, content to remain a bachelor. That was until he met me. On our third date, Gordon smiled at me, his sky-blue eyes twinkling with adoration as he embraced me in a warm cuddle, and announced that he was going to marry me one day. I had long resolved to never marry, but truth be told, I too by that third date had an uncanny feeling that I just might marry that man.

I laughed out loud, kissed his sweet cheek, and replied, “That will never happen.” But it did. Our dating life left me more than enough material to write another book, but suffice to say, by the following year’s end, we were living together, and within the following year, I was planning our wedding. I took the plunge after weighing all the fears I had about what the future might hold as older age set in against how much I loved and felt loved by this man. I couldn’t deny the fact that I had found my soulmate.

 

If you enjoy reading books about relationships, aging and wisdom, what changes in a marriage and look into how I’ve worked out my own formula for maintaining a healthy and loving relationship, then this book may just be for you!

You can find all my books on my Amazon Author Page, and if you’d like to purchase a copy of this book, HERE is the universal link that will take you to the Amazon page of your own country.

 

***For those of you interested in purchasing a copy of the paperback, nightmares abound with Createspace and their previewing tool (as I found out quite a few authors have encountered this lately). So unfortunately because I couldn’t preview the download I await a proof copy in snail mail from the US before I hit publish, so I’ll keep you up to date!

Update:  The paperback is now live!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#BOOKLAUNCH – TWENTY YEARS: AFTER “I DO” BY D.G. KAYE

14 Thursday Dec 2017

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Thanks to Tina Frisco for the original post

#BOOKLAUNCH – TWENTY YEARS: AFTER “I DO” BY D.G. KAYE

via #Booklaunch – Twenty Years: After “I Do” by D.G. Kaye

Debby Gies, aka D.G. Kaye, has just released her 6th memoir,  Twenty Years: After “I Do”. She speaks from the heart and bares her soul in her writing. I couldn’t recommend her books more highly.
Debby is an ardent supporter of authors, featuring guest posts and interviews, reblogs, book reviews, tips and tricks, and much more. She is an inspiration and a woman I am proud to call Sister and Friend.
Join me in congratulating Debby on launching her new book. She frequently shares her fellow authors’ posts, so please do her the honor of sharing this, or her original launch post, to your social networks. Thank you so much ♥

 

Twenty Years: After "I Do" by D.G. Kaye

Buy the book HERE
(universal link)

BLURB
May/December memoirs.

In this personal accounting, D.G. Kaye shares the insights and wisdom she has accrued through twenty years of keeping her marriage strong and thriving despite the everyday changes and challenges of aging. Kaye reveals how a little creative planning, acceptance, and unconditional love can create a bond no obstacle will break. Kaye’s stories are informative, inspiring, and a testament to love eclipsing all when two people understand, respect, and honor their vows. She adds that a daily sprinkling of laughter is a staple in nourishing a healthy marriage.

Twenty years began with a promise. As Kaye recounts what transpired within that time, she shows that true love has no limits, even when one spouse ages ahead of the other.

EXCERPT
Chapter: To the Moon with Laughter 

I’ve witnessed many relationships head south when the initial attraction fades. Sure, people change opinions, preferences, or attitudes on certain issues as time passes, but if our core values or personality change, or if the common elements of enjoyment once shared between two people dissipate, we question our happiness. If we’re not happy about our partner’s personality change or views, a little bit of laughter dies within us. It becomes difficult to feel comfortable with our partner when inner unrest grows. The new discomfort curtails our ability to remain happy and feel the familiar freedom to laugh when our partner no longer shares the same humor. Note that I’m not referring to changes such as complacency or laziness that may set in due to declining energy levels. Age will sometimes alter our agility and even certain desires, but it doesn’t have to affect our senses of humor. Age creeping into a good marriage shouldn’t be a relationship killer.

EDITORIAL REVIEW 

Twenty Years: After “I Do” shows not only newly married couples but also those in the middle of their lives how to navigate companionship challenges and show love and kindness to their partners, handling life together gracefully and in harmony.

Multibook self-help author D.G. Kaye demonstrates, using examples from her own marriage, how to really commit to a relationship—till death do us part.

– Doris-Maria Heilmann, 111 Publishing

BIO D.G. Kaye Writer

Debby Gies is a Canadian nonfiction/memoir author who writes under the pen name of D.G. Kaye. She was born, raised, and resides in Toronto, Canada. Kaye writes about her life experiences, matters of the heart and women’s issues.

D.G. writes to inspire others. Her writing encompasses stories taken from events she encountered in her own life, and she shares the lessons taken from them. Her sunny outlook on life developed from learning to overcome challenges in her life, and finding the upside from those situations, while practicing gratitude for all the positives.

When Kaye isn’t writing intimate memoirs, she brings her natural sense of humor into her other works. She loves to laugh and self- medicate with a daily dose of humor.

Why I Write

I love to tell stories that have lessons in them, and hope to empower others by sharing my own experiences. I write raw and honest about my own experiences, hoping through my writing, that others can relate and find that there is always a choice to move from a negative space, and look for the positive.

Quotes

“Live Laugh Love . . . And Don’t Forget to Breathe!”

“For every kindness, there should be kindness in return. Wouldn’t that just make the world right?”

When I’m not writing, I’m reading or quite possibly looking after some mundane thing in life. It’s also possible I may be on a secret getaway trip, as that is my passion—traveling.

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Welsh Wednesdays: Llandeilo Christmas Book Fair in the Press

13 Wednesday Dec 2017

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Thanks to the Herald for this lovely write-up:
Link to the original article at the Herald:

http://www.carmarthenshireherald.com/39501/treat-literature-fans-llandeilo-book-fair/

NEWS 

Treat for literature fans at Llandeilo Book Fair

Published by

 Jason Cooper 

Organised by local author Christoph Fischer, the event attracted a wide range of local authors exhibiting their work and giving readings at several venues.

Since moving to west Wales with his Welsh partner, Mr Fischer has been amazed at the abundance of literary talent on his doorstep.

Over 30 local authors gathered in the Horeb Chapel and in the Shire Hall from 10:30 to 4pm to exhibit their latest books and 14 of them held workshops and readings in shops all over Llandeilo.Image may contain: 1 person, smiling

“Although Llandeilo has the Red Cross Charity Book Shop, the town’s literary appetite is still unsatiated and demand for books and bookish events is high,” Mr Fischer explained.

While the event is smaller than the April Lit Fest the Book Fair managed to capture its spirit by bringing the authors and their readings right into the heart of town.

continue reading here:

http://www.carmarthenshireherald.com/39501/treat-literature-fans-llandeilo-book-fair/

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Happy Hanukkah 2017

13 Wednesday Dec 2017

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Orlando Espinosa

May hope, happiness, love, and health fill your home and heart at Hanukkah.

 

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SINGING MY SONG IN A BOOK

13 Wednesday Dec 2017

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Further to my own review yesterday, here’s more praise for Revital and her brave book

P.C. ZICK

revital_AMAZONI recently heard from an author friend with whom I’d lost contact over the past few years.  I was happy to receive her email asking me to help format her newest endeavor. I didn’t know much about the project, except it was nonfiction–self-help–unlike her two previous books, both novels, I had read and reviewed.

When she sent me the manuscript, I felt as if I’d entered into Gladys Knight’s world when I saw the title and began reading, Revital Shiri-Horowitz’s book, It’s Just Your Imagination – Growing Up With a Narcissistic Mother.  Revital was “Killing Me Softly” with her words.

Not literally, of course. But I was struck that despite our different backgrounds, cultures, and details of our lives, we both experienced the same emotional responses to being raised by women who were unable to love us unconditionally because of their own mental condition.

With precise dissection and brutal…

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Review: “It’s Just Your Imagination: Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother – Insights of a Personal Journey” by Revital Shiri-Horowitz

12 Tuesday Dec 2017

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What an incredible journey: Growing up with a mother who doesn’t support you is a really tough challenge and one that many fail to survive. Shiri-Horovitz tells her own story with the intellect and precision of an analytical and reflective person, vulnerable but not a victim; well, clearly a victim of circumstances but not one to merely point the finger and just sit back and feel sorry for herself.
Inspiring at times, painful at others, refreshingly honest, informative and helpful are some of the words that spring to mind. Something that has the potential to help thousands of people and an amazing journey that is compelling to watch.
Having read the author’s other books it’s great to hear her own voice in a biographical context. I had no idea there had been so much pain and struggle in her life. All the more reassuring that people can pull through, as she did.
Whether your own mother was narcissistic or maybe someone else’s was, there is something to learn from this for everyone. Thanks for sharing your story, which can’t have been easy.
Highly recommended.

Buy the book on Amazon UK and Amazon US

Link to my interview with Revital and review of “The Daughters of Iraq”

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I was born and raised in Israel. As the oldest child of a family of three, I was the one who would daydream, I was the one who read like a bookworm, and I was the one who was so influenced by books, that I could act as if I were the main character in the book of real life for weeks…My father owned a small appliance shop and my mom was a stay-at-home mom. Both my parents immigrated to Israel from Iraq in 1950, but met twelve years later and married. As a kid, I remember writing poetry and some short stories. I had a journal I wrote in almost every day since I was nine years old, and up to the time I met my husband, but never imagined that one day I would become a published author in more than one language, and in so many countries, and even continents.I come from a very creative family. Three out of six of my uncles and aunt are published poets, and four of my cousins are well known musicians in Israel, so I don’t really understand why I never thought of myself as a writer (probably because I just did not have the guts…).

In Israel, after I graduated from high school I went to the army. I volunteered for special service with an army unit based in Kibbutz Eilot, located next to the Red Sea port city of Eilat. In that unit I worked in the kibbutz at the laundry, with kids ages three and ten (and loved it!), and even in the kitchen and dining room. It was an experience I will never forget, and influenced me, since this was the first time in my life that I was actually independent and away from my family.

After army service of two and a half years I went to Tel Aviv University, where I studied Hebrew Literature and Geography. I loved studying, and this is the reason I hold two Master degrees in both subjects, and a teaching certificate. During my studies I met my husband-to-be, and we moved to London for a year.

The year we spent in London was quite a shock for me. As an Israeli, I was always following the news, checking to see if any catastrophe happened, living life on a very fast track. While in London, I learned that the “hot subject” was usually the cold weather and the rain. After a year we moved back to Israel and I went back to school. A year later we married and after another year I became a very proud mom to a beautiful boy. I was the happiest woman on earth when that happened. I felt that I achieved the most important thing in life – I gave life.

Two years passed and we moved to Washington State. I love this area very much, but as an Israeli, I never got used to the cold weather, so three years (and another boy) later, we moved back to Israel, this time for about three and a half years, and then with a third son returned to the US. During our stay in Israel earned a second degree in Hebrew Literature, where I focused on Women Studies. I remember taking a class that had a discussion on Jewish women in Arab countries. I remember how upset I was to learn about these women were forgotten, weak, and had lives that lacked meaning, while I knew how powerful the women in my family were back then in Iraq. I remember speaking about this with my aunt, and her suggesting that I can write the story of the women in our family.

Am I a writer? I wasn’t very sure, but decided it was worth taking the risk. I started investigating, and taped my aunt, and decided to try and write a novel that would be based on my family’s story. That would be my best chance to reach as many readers as possible, I thought. A character came to my mind, and she was based on a neighbor I once had, who used to be a very good friend of my mom. She was also a mix of my mom and aunts. But where is she located, I wondered, and what was she doing? In my imagination she was living in a small town, and she was for sure proudly cooking I thought, Iraqi dishes. You see, in our Iraqi Jewish family a mom feeds everyone. My mom is still the same way, and food has a central role in our life.

Then came the second character, the sister of this woman whom I named Farina. She was the family intellectual, and was writing the family story because she was sick with cancer. She wanted to leave it for her children to learn later in life about their roots and origin. I named her Violet, since in Iraq they used English names because the British had ruled for many years.

The third main character was Violet’s daughter, Noa, a student in her twenties, trying to find her happiness and herself.

Writing this book took five years. Another boy was added to our family, and the book was first published in Israel. As we moved back and forth, my dream was to publish in English too, which I did.

I am now a mother of four boys, married to same husband for twenty years, writing more poetry, running a blog in “Haaretz”, an Israeli newspaper, and working for the last three years on a second novel.

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